Running Through the Dye with my Woes 

This past saturday my family and I ran walked our first 5k! We wanted to do something fun so we decided to try out one of those color runs we see everybody doing.

My dad being the goof troop he is decided he was going to wear this sheer white jumpsuit that people wear when they are painting houses. lol The temperature during the day was around 95 degrees so needless to say he decided to not run in his jumpsuit lol


I decided to keep it simple with my highlighter colored tank top and some black capris

He eventually decided on an unwanted polo and and unwanted hat

Before the race even got started people were throwing color lol


Once the race started, it got dark pretty fast.  It was a night run so our run time was 8:30 Pm.

They had these cool UV lights that really reflected the colors.
These fools really had a good time!


My over achieving boyfriend and his best friend finished the race in less than 20 minutes!


Overall it was so much fun and I can’t wait to do another one!









Miguel vs. Frank Ocean vs. The Weeknd

Okay I read the interview where Miguel had made the comment that he made better music than Frank Ocean. I believe this was in response to Frank Ocean winning that Grammy over him last year. Correct me if I’m wrong.

So I saw somebody ask who was better between Frank Ocean and Miguel. While scrolling through the comments I saw someone throw The Weeknd’s name into the ring as well.  I initially didn’t participate because I honestly didn’t know. I decided to pose this question on my Facebook page and got a lot of different responses.  I enjoy this because listening to other people’s points and opinions gives me much to think about when trying to decide whose music I actually enjoy more.

It seems like the general opinion likes Miguel, but I think this mostly because he just released an album last week. Which isn’t exactly fair because Frank Ocean and The Weeknd are supposedly putting out new albums this summer…

But I’ll work with what I have to try and figure out who exactly I like the most….

Frank Ocean (The Tortured Soul)


I am literally listening to channel orange right now! I LOVE THIS ALBUM!! He is a genius!! This man is so talented! Pyramids is one of my favorite songs of all time. The thing I like about Frank is his songs are so different. He is not afraid to sing about him falling in love with a man, or a girl, or whatever the hell he’s talking about.  You can tell he is speaking his truth and that just resonates with me… Rumors have it, he’s releasing a new album sometime this month. It’s supposedly titled “Boys don’t cry”

Miguel (New R&B)


Out of the three of these artists, I think Miguel is the closest to a traditional R&B artist.  He does have the best voice and his music is so catchy! Not to mention the lyrics! He has mastered the art of being raunchy without coming off as disrespectful! *Ques Pussy is mine* His second album Kaleidoscope Dream is everything!! EVERYTHING! Sadly I am not feeling his latest album as much but these things often grow on me so we’ll see.

The Weeknd (Emo R&B)


Okay so it took me a minute to get into The Weeknd but once I did I was hooked!! There is not a single song by him that I have not loved! And that’s saying a lot! Miguel is clearly the “sexy music” but I cannot lie and say the Weeknd’s music doesn’t take you there as well! Earned it, Wicked Games….whew  Enough said! His style is so original and different that it’s hypnotizing. If that makes sense.  Sadly though I have heard that he is not the greatest live performer. I guess I’ll find out at Made in America in September. His new album is titled “Beauty Behind The Madness” and babaaaeeee I can’t wait! August 28th!

See I say all of that to say I still don’t know who my favorite is lol Currently I think I would have to go with The Weeknd (at least until Frank drops another album and I give Miguel’s another listen) But nonetheless my summer will be amazing! Given that all 3 will have new albums out by September!

We’ll revisit this then lol


What do you think?

Books I’ve Read in June (Or didn’t actually)

Okay you guys don’t be mad at me! I needed a break! From writing and reading but i’m back!

Needless to say JUNE SUCKED!!

I only read two books and they both sucked!! Which is probably why I decided to take a break in the first place….

Here goes…

2. Abandon by Blake Crouch


On Christmas Day in 1893, every man, woman and child in a remote gold mining town disappeared, belongings forsaken, meals left to freeze in vacant cabins; and not a single bone was ever found. One hundred thirteen years later, two backcountry guides are hired by a history professor and his journalist daughter to lead them into the abandoned mining town so that they can learn what happened. With them is a psychic, and a paranormal photographer—as the town is rumored to be haunted. A party that tried to explore the town years ago was never heard from again. What this crew is about to discover is that twenty miles from civilization, with a blizzard bearing down, they are not alone, and the past is very much alive.

I Thought…

HORRIBLE!!! ugh I’m getting mad just thinking about the time I wasted on this damn book. I really enjoyed the Wayward Pines series by Blake Crouch so I figured I’d give this book a shot. Thank God that is over!!!!! omg!! It took me forever to finish that book! so many unneccesary details and fluff. By the end I was just skimming the pages thinking “ok ok get on with it already” sheesh! I rated it one star on my goodreads page.


1. Bread or Death: Memories of My Childhood During and After the Holocaust by Milton Mendel Kleinberg


The war brought about scarcities of just about everything…except misery.
“Alle raise,” (everybody out), the German soldiers screamed as they pounded on our door with the butts of their rifles. And thus began a 4,500-mile journey from Poland through Russia and Siberia and eventually to Uzbekistan in Central Asia, as the author’s family used bribery and darkness of night to flee as the Nazis invaded Poland in 1939.

Young Mendel, from age four to fourteen, tells in vivid detail the wretched journey in cramped cattle cars through frigid Russia, the indignities of being forced labor, the shame of begging for bread just to survive, and death of those closest to him. The family s plight includes abandonment, hunger, and separation (and later remarkable twists of fate and reunion) quite unlike other Holocaust stories.

This coming-of-age, Holocaust memoir is the author’s personal account of how through great sacrifices by his mother he managed to survive the worst atrocities in human history and his uncertain days in a Polish Children’s Home, scrabbling for fallen fruit, and surviving kidnapping and murder on the Black Road, and return to German Displaced Persons camps at war’s end. But to what fate?

Originally written as a memoir just for his grandchildren, Milton Kleinberg gives a moving account of his family s hardships and eventual immigration with a lump-in-the-throat passage to America past the Statue of Liberty and into a land of opportunity tinged with bigotry yet with a promise to future generations.”

I Thought…

This was an average read. I was trying to step outside the box and read something a little different. I didn’t hate it, but I didn’t love it. And despite what I originally thought, this book didn’t provoke a lot of emotion from me. It is a great historical piece. I rated it 3 stars on Goodreads.

Books I’ve Read in May…

Man this last month started out rough! These books were average at best! I almost wanted to take a break from my challenge but I decided to keep on in hopes of finding some better material in June.  Anyway here goes May.

*As usual, they are listed from my least favorite to my most favorite*

7. Acts of Contrition by Jennifer Handford


“Mary Morrissey is living the life of her dreams. She has a loving husband of ten years, Tom, two daughters, and twin boys. Her parents are just down the road. Her three sisters are nearby. Perfect—some might even say she is living the American Dream.

But beneath the shiny veneer, Mary hasn’t taken a calm breath in years. She lives in a constant state of panic, afraid that the secret she’s kept hidden for so long will be revealed, that it will shatter the life she’s worked so hard to build.

When Mary’s handsome and addictively charismatic ex-boyfriend Landon James reappears during his high profile Senate campaign, she feels the truth bubbling to the surface and knows she’s powerless to stop it. Mary has spent years trying to forget him, and now he’s on every TV she sees.

A conditional Catholic, Mary bargains with God, negotiating deals that will keep her happy life undisturbed for another day. She prays for strength and confesses her sins—anything that might let her sleep at night under the weight of the guilt she carries from lying to her husband and family for the entirety of her marriage.

When Tom learns what Mary’s been hiding, what once seemed unfathomable—a deep, heartbreaking divide between them—is now their new normal. Can they find a way to rebuild their life together? Is forgiveness possible?

Acts of Contrition is a richly drawn story of faith, family loyalty, and forgiveness, even in the face of moral ambiguity, guilt, and shattered trust.”

I Thought….

My biggest problem with this book is the main character Mary. I do not understand her obsession with her ex boyfriend. At a certain point I really thought that she had some type of mental illness. Or maybe the author didn’t do a good enough job developing his character. He came off as a regular guy. Nothing that he did came off as especially bad.  So it didn’t make sense that she had this love/hate thing with him.
Also I felt like her religion was more a distraction than an important part of the story. This book just wasn’t my cup of tea. I rated 1 star on goodreads.


6. Hidden (Bone Secrets #1) by Kendra Elliot


Eleven years ago, the Co-ed Slayer murdered nine  female students on the Oregon State University campus. Lacey Campbell barely escaped his attack, but lost her best friend whose remains were never found. As the sole surviving victim, Lacey helped send the sadistic serial killer to prison for life.

Now a forensic odontologist examining teeth and bones for the state Medical ExEleven years ago, the Co-ed Slayer murdered nine female students on the Oregon State University campus. Lacey Campbell barely escaped his attack, but lost her best friend whose remains were never found. As the sole surviving victim, Lacey helped send the sadistic serial killer to prison for life.

Now a forensic odontologist examining teeth and bones for the state Medical Examiner, Lacey is devastated when she arrives at a crime scene and identifies the skeletal remains as her college friend’s.

The remains are discovered on the land of ex-cop Jack Harper. Sparks fly between him and Lacey, even as they realize that the prosecution’s witnesses from a decade ago are now being murdered one by one. All the evidence points to the Co-ed Slayer as the culprit—only, he’s long since dead. So who’s the new killer? And is Lacey next in line to die?

Golden Heart finalist Kendra Elliot combines chilling suspense and steamy romance in a gripping tale, uniting in-depth forensic knowledge with a passion for thrillers. Set in the snowy winter of Oregon, ‘Hidden’ creates spine-tingling chills.”

I Thought…

This book is a one star. It is. I gave it 2 because it tricked me. In the first few chapters it made me believe that this was truly a murder thriller story. And then it turned into an unreal love story. I mean seriously. If a serial killer is after you who has time to think of sex??!!? Not to mention when Jack comes to save her, she’s on the verge on death, and the 1st thing she says is how hot he is??? come on! Yeah unless I am dealthy bored, I am pretty sure I will not be reading the next book.  I rated it 2 stars on goodreads


5. Pines (Wayward Pines #1) by Blake Crouch

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Secret service agent Ethan Burke arrives in Wayward Pines, Idaho, with a clear mission: locate and recover two federal agents who went missing in the bucolic town one month earlier. But within minutes of his arrival, Ethan is involved in a violent accident. He comes to in a hospital, with no ID, no cell phone, and no briefcase. The medical staff seems friendly enough, but something feels?off. As the days pass, Ethan’s investigation into the disappearance of his colleagues turns up more questions than answers. Why can’t he get any phone calls through to his wife and son in the outside world? Why doesn’t anyone believe he is who he says he is? And what is the purpose of the electrified fences surrounding the town? Are they meant to keep the residents in? Or something else out? Each step closer to the truth takes Ethan further from the world he thought he knew, from the man he thought he was, until he must face a horrifying fact? He may never get out of Wayward Pines alive. Intense and gripping, Pines is another masterful thriller from the mind of bestselling novelist Blake Crouch.”

I Thought…

I didn’t know that this would be a TV Mini series when I first began reading. This book started out good (5 stars) then lost me completly (2 stars) then wrapped it up nicely and still left me wondering some things. Which is why I will def be watching the show and reading the next book.


4. Lost World (Broken World #4) by Kate L. Mary


Lost World, the fourth book in the Broken World series, continues following a group of survivors after a super-virus has destroyed the world and the dead have come back to claim it as their own…

With their shelter destroyed and their sense of security shattered, Vivian, Axl and the group set off in search of a safe place. But the group’s morale is at an all-time low, and they now know it’s not just the dead they have to fear. Weeks of wandering brings sickness, death and loss to the survivors, and Vivian soon finds herself losing hope of ever discovering a safe place to live. To make matters worse, two members of the group go missing, leaving the others to wonder not only what happened to them, but if they will ever see their friends alive again.

After what happened in Vegas, Hadley feels like a stranger in her own body. When she and Jon get separated from the rest of the group, she finds herself confronted not only with the scars left behind by her ordeal, but facing the possibility of a new beginning with Jon at her side.

In a twist of fate, Vivian and Axl stumble upon a place that could be the group’s salvation, only to have hope slip through their fingers once again when they are met with the most devastating blow yet…”

I Thought…

I am dedicated to this series.  My Fav Zombie books so far. And because of that I cannot rate it any lower than 4 stars. This book set up a lot but didn’t wrap them up for me in the end.  So much was left open and unsaid that it frustrated me and I felt it was over too soon. I am awaiting the next book.


3. The Lion, the Lamb, the Hunted by Andrew E. Kaufman


But a minute was all it took to turn Jean Kingsley’s world upside down—a minute she’d regret for the rest of her life.

Because when she returned, she found an open bedroom window and her three-year-old son, Nathan, gone. The boy would never be seen again.

A tip leads detectives to the killer, a repeat sex offender, and inside his apartment, a gruesome discovery. A slam-dunk trial sends him off to death row, then several years later, to the electric chair.

CASE CLOSED. JUSTICE SERVED…OR WAS IT?Now, more than thirty years later, Patrick Bannister unwittingly stumbles across evidence among his dead mother’s belongings—it paints her as the killer and her brother, a wealthy and powerful senator, as the one pulling the strings.

WHAT REALLY HAPPENED TO NATHAN KINGSLEY?There’s a hole in the case a mile wide, and Patrick is determined to close it. But what he doesn’t know is that the closer he moves toward the truth, the more he’s putting his life on the line, that he’s become the hunted. Someone’s hiding a dark secret and will stop at nothing to keep it that way.

The clock is ticking, the walls are closing, and the stakes are getting higher as he races to find a killer—one who’s hot on his trail. One who’s out for his blood.”

I Thought…

Creepy Creepy Creepy. This book gave me nightmares. It wasn’t as complexed as I wanted it to be, but I still didn’t see the plot twist coming. Granted it was a good book, I just won’t ever read it again lol I rated it 4 stars.


2. The Last Town (Wayward Pines #3) by Blake Crouch


“Secret Service agent Ethan Burke arrived in Wayward Pines, Idaho, three weeks ago. In this town, people are told who to marry, where to live, where to work. Their children are taught that David Pilcher, the town’s creator, is god. No one is allowed to leave; even asking questions can get you killed.

But Ethan has discovered the astonishing secret of what lies beyond the electrified fence that surrounds Wayward Pines and protects it from the terrifying world beyond. It is a secret that has the entire population completely under the control of a madman and his army of followers, a secret that is about to come storming through the fence to wipe out this last, fragile remnant of humanity.

Blake Crouch’s electrifying conclusion to the Wayward Pines Series?now a Major Television Event Series debuting Summer 2014 on FOX?will have you glued to the page right down to the very last word.”

I Thought…

Wow! Really? You’re just going to end it like that huh? okay okay. Crouch knows he is wrong for that!! But honestly I was not expecting that. Can’t wait to see how the show plays all of this out. Great series! I rated the Wayward Pines Finale 5 stars


1. Wayward (Wayward Pines #2) by Blake Crouch


“Welcome to Wayward Pines, population 461. Nestled amidst picture-perfect mountains, the idyllic town is a modern-day Eden…except for the electrified fence and razor wire, snipers scoping everything 24/7, and the relentless surveillance tracking each word and gesture.

None of the residents know how they got here. They are told where to work, how to live, and who to marry. Some believe they are dead. Others think they’re trapped in an unfathomable experiment. Everyone secretly dreams of leaving, but those who dare face a terrifying surprise.

Ethan Burke has seen the world beyond. He’s sheriff, and one of the few who knows the truth—Wayward Pines isn’t just a town. And what lies on the other side of the fence is a nightmare beyond anyone’s imagining”

I Thought…

This book was everything the other 2 books weren’t. With series, the middle book(s) are almost always the worst! That is not the case at all with this one! Now i’m anxious for these events to happen on the show. I rated this book 5 stars on goodreads.






Game of Thrones and Rape Culture



If you are NOT caught up on Game of Thrones do not read!

You have been warned.

Now that we have that out of the way, let’s talk about it. This is not a recap, and I will not talk about all of the other random things that happened on Sunday’s episode.  I am here to try to figure out how I feel about Sansa’s rape scene with Ramsay Bolton.

I am already conflicted about this sadistic character because I love Iwan Rheon



Especially when he was on misfits but I have to accept that, that show is over now and Ramsay is not Simon in any way.


Moving on, many people are upset about the rape scene.  They say they are never watching again, too much has happened to Sansa, the writers are insensitive to rape, blah blah blah.

Okay first off and I’m sad that I even have to say this: It’s a television show. A fictional television show. It’s a fictional world with fictional characters. She was not raped in real life. Yes I already hear your rebuttal in my head “But so many women and girls are raped in real life”

Yes this is true, however, how many of these women have been forced into marriages to plot revenge against their slain family members so they can become the Queen of the North? Oh


Secondly, Sansa Stark has had a rough life. I agree. But ummm so much more has happened to so many other characters. Theon for example.  If you’ve been watching then I don’t even have to go into details about his experiences with Ramsay.

Yes this show uses rape a lot.  But in this uncivilized environment it’s not unrealistic.  Not to mention that majority of these characters have some severe mental illnesses going on.

I personally believe Sansa will be okay.  She is so much smarter now than she was when she was with Joffrey.  And hopefully she will avenge her family, because the Stark family have not been having a good run on this show.


I am A BLACK Woman, So Hear Me Roar!!

I just finished another semester of grad school. My last professor was a Caribbean man. In my class there were five women. 2 Black (1 was me), 1 white and 2 Africans. Almost immediately I noticed his “preference” for the women from Africa. This didn’t bother me because I know I work hard and teachers always have favorites. But during class discussions and even presentations, I noticed his short and sometimes sarcastic remarks towards me and the other Black woman. With our online discussions he sometimes seemed surprised that my responses were as intelligent as they were. And that’s saying something because I really didn’t try that hard, so just imagine if I actually put work into it lol It bothered me, I was taking it personal.   I thought it was an attack against me as a person.  But my other classmate summed it up for me the last day of class.  She said “It’s because we’re regular black, we’re from this country so we’re dumb to him”.

It all made sense.

“The most disrespected person in America is the Black woman.  The most unprotected person in America is the Black woman.  The most neglected person in America is the Black woman.”

This was spoken by Malcolm X in 1962. Sadly it is still relevant.  For a while now when I hear white women discuss women’s issues I got the feeling we (black women) weren’t included in that protest.

And then I heard Patricia Arquette’s speech at the Oscars and got that same feeling. But only when I saw her interview backstage did I know for sure her speech wasn’t intended for women of color. “It’s time for all the women in America and all the men that love women, and all the gay people, and all the people of color that we’ve all fought for to fight for us now.”


Now I don’t think she meant any harm. She just wasn’t thinking about black women or lesbians for that matter either. But that’s just the problem! We are NEVER thought about or considered within this feminist movement.

The fact that she believes that WOC can just put their “little race problems” to the side and pick up the women’s equality issue is just sad. As a person of color AND woman, we are carrying double the load.

The struggle of the Black Woman in America just cannot be compared. Maybe I’m bias because I know this struggle first hand.


Traveling Trap Queen: My trip to the Dominican Republic

I’m just getting back from my vacation in Punta Cana! It was amazing! Me and my boyfriend had a great time!  Before I start my recap and post my pictures, I’ll give a little information about planning. We booked our trip online in November through Vacation Express. We paid a deposit that was about $200 a person, and the remaining balance was due in March. Which made it easier for us to afford. Everything was included with this package, flight, food and drinks.

We stayed at the Vista Sol resort


and I was a little nervous because of all the not so good reviews I’ve read. But we had a great time and didn’t have any issues.

Our first day there (Friday) we got off the plane and realized I probably should have started my Rosetta stone Spanish lessons lol I was totally unprepared for the language barrier. But despite this, using my minimal Spanish I learned in college, we were able to get whatever needed. So we walked around the resort and tried to get something to eat. We found a sports bar located on the beach and decided to eat there. All of the restaurants were included in our all inclusive package. I’ve heard bad things about the food so we got something familiar to start with lol


Yep it was horrible lol but the potato wedges were good so we stuck to that. Now off to explore and get some of that all inclusive alcohol



That’s my boyfriend! It was his birthday! Yay lol anyway I’m ashamed to say that our 1st night there we passed out around 7 and didn’t wake up until the next day lol On Saturday we got a early start and promised no early bedtime



Breakfast at the buffet was pretty good. Everything taste different though. Not necessarily a bad way just different. You see that didn’t stop Terry though lol it took me a little longer to adjust to the food.
Lunch was even weirder but I did a little better.


Some type of seafood pasta and fish which was actually pretty good.

For dinner we ate at the Mexican restaurant. The resort had 3 speciality restaurants (Mexican, Italian, and French) that you had to make reservations for. The Mexican restaurant was amazing! It was so good that I forgot to take a pic of what I had lol but we took some pics after we ate.




Oh the best part. They served us tequila shots at dinner.


The Italian restaurant wasn’t good, but they still were dressed cute lol

The next day we did our first excursion. Riding the buggies through the country.




It was so much poverty! So sad to see the living conditions so poor.




We spent some time at a beach and then visited some cave. The locals were really aggressive at trying to get us to buy stuff so we just took a few pics and headed back to our buggy.




Yall know I’m a old lady lol so after that I needed a nap. But that night we went to a beach party. It was a bunch of drunk white people dancing so it was entertaining lol



The next day we did a happy hour snorkeling cruise. It was sooooo much fun! I recommend everyone try one! Terry was not feeling snorkeling but i tried it and had fun


Afterwards we turned uppppp. They parked the boat in a natural pool and we all partied in the water for about a hour…





Yep so we were done done lol when we got back to the resort we partied with a random band that was outside lol




That was our last night and we definitely went out with a bang!
Oh side note there were so many damn birds!





And other animals…



Oh and you know I had to bring back a personal souvenir lol